“ONLY ONE CARRY ONE PER PERSON”
MARK 6:1-13
[6:1] He went away from there
and came to his hometown, and his disciples followed him.
[2] And on the Sabbath he
began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were astonished,
saying, “Where did this man get these things? What is the wisdom given to him?
How are such mighty works done by his hands?
[3] Is not this the
carpenter, the son of Mary and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon?
And are not his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him.
[4] And Jesus said to them,
“A prophet is not without honor, except in his hometown and among his relatives
and in his own household.”
[5] And he could do no mighty
work there, except that he laid his hands on a few sick people and healed them.
[6] And he marveled because
of their unbelief. And he went about among the villages teaching.
[7] And he called the twelve
and began to send them out two by two, and gave them authority over the unclean
spirits.
[8] He charged them to take
nothing for their journey except a staff—no bread, no bag, no money in their
belts—
[9] but to wear sandals and
not put on two tunics.
[10] And he said to them,
“Whenever you enter a house, stay there until you depart from there.
[11] And if any place will
not receive you and they will not listen to you, when you leave, shake off the
dust that is on your feet as a testimony against them.”
[12] So they went out and
proclaimed that people should repent.
[13] And they cast out many
demons and anointed with oil many who were sick and healed them.
Jesus would have made a great
flight attendant. That thought
occurred to me a couple of weeks ago when I flew to North Carolina. First of
all my fear of flying would
have been greatly relieved if I had known that God’s only begotten son was on
the plane with us as a flight attendant.
The way I see it if Jesus could keep a boat from sinking on the Sea of
Galilee he could also keep a plane from falling out of the sky.
I definitely suffer from
aviophobia. That’s the fear of
flying. How about you?
If you hate to fly then the last thing you want is
to have a
conversation similar to the one that a little old lady had one day with her
flight attendant. The conversation
took place after the passengers were all seated on the plane. Instead of
taxiing out to the
runway though they just sat there.
Eventually the little old lady asked the flight attendant what the
reason was for the delay. “Oh,”
the flight attendant said, “the pilot was bothered by a noise that he heard in
the engine. He said he wasn't
going to fly the plane till they fixed it and it took us a while to find a new
pilot.”
Yes, Jesus would have made a
great flight attendant.
Not only would he be there
with a miracle in the event of an emergency but Jesus was also an expert on how
best to travel. You see
Jesus was a firm believer in the one carry on per person rule. Usually when you
think of the one carry
on rule you think about your physical baggage. However, Jesus knew however that you also need to apply the
one carry on rule to your emotional baggage. That a problem for some people. They go through life carrying a lot of excess emotional
baggage. How about you? Do you do
that?
When Jesus sent the disciples
out to spread the Good News he gave
them some instructions. Jesus said that if anyone “will not receive you
and…will not listen to you, when you leave, shake off the dust that is on your
feet as a testimony against them.”
In other words get the anger
out of your system. Then let it go
and move on with your life. Some people don’t do that. They go through life
carrying all kinds of excess emotional baggage. Sometimes the emotional baggage
comes from an elderly mother who really knows how to push your guilt
button. Sometimes the emotional
baggage comes from a friend who is always dumping her problems on you. Sometimes
the emotional baggage comes from
an overly critical father who left you feeling like you weren’t quite good
enough. It’s called low
self-esteem and if you carry that
emotional baggage then you can probably identify with some words that playwright
Jules Feiffer wrote many years ago.
His short essay appeared in “The Village Voice.” This is what
he wrote:
“I felt like a fraud. So I
learned to fly an airplane.
At 50,000 feet I thought, ‘A
fraud is flying an airplane.’
So, I crossed the Atlantic in
a rowboat. I docked at Cherbourg.
And I thought, ‘A fraud has
crossed the Atlantic in a rowboat.’
So I took a space shot to the
moon.
On the way home I thought, ‘A
fraud has circled the moon.’
So I took a full page ad in
the newspaper,
And confessed to the world
that I was a fraud.
I read the ad and thought
- ‘A fraud is pretending to be
honest.’”
Are you carrying any excess
emotional baggage? Jesus knew all
about excess emotional baggage.
In fact, just look at what the people in his home town of Nazareth did
to him. They dumped on him big time.
They refused to believe that he was the messiah. They looked down on him and said, “‘Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary and brother of
James and Joses and Judas and Simon? And are not his sisters here with us?’ And
they took offense at him.” Their
negativity was so bad that Mark tells us that Jesus couldn’t do any miracles
there. So what did Jesus do? Did
he smile and say, “Thank you
everyone. Feel free to give me all
your excess emotional baggage and I’ll be happy to carry it for you?” No.
Instead of doing that he moved on to
the next village. Mark tells
us that, “he marveled because of their unbelief. And he went about among the villages teaching.”
When you look at what’s happened
to Jesus and the instructions that he gave to the disciples the conclusion is
simple. Only one carry on per person. If the excess emotional baggage is yours
put it down. If the excess
emotional baggage belongs to someone else put it down. All you have to do to
put down that bag full of anger is say, “I forgive you.” All you have to do to
put down that bag full of guilt is say “I’m sorry.” And you know that bag with the “you’re not good enough” tag
on it? You’ll be able to put it
down when you go to the Cross and remember that God really does love you.
Jesus was a firm believer in
the one carry on per person rule. That’s
why, you can be sure that the Lord will always be there to help you put down
that excess emotional baggage. A
woman found that out one day when she put down her bag full of sadness and
sorrow long enough to let the Lord fill her heart with laughter and love. I wish I knew who wrote this story but unfortunately the
author is unknown. However, this
is what she wrote, “Consumed by my
loss, I didn’t notice the hardness of the pew where I sat. I was at the
funeral of my dearest
friend – my mother. She finally
had lost her long battle with cancer.
The hurt was so intense, that I found it hard to breathe at times.”
Does that sound
familiar? Have you ever felt that
way yourself? The woman goes on to
say that her grief was suddenly broken by the sounds of a late arriving
mourner. She writes, “I heard a
door – open and slam shut –at the back of the church, and footsteps quickly
hurried along the carpeted floor.
An exasperated young man looked around briefly and then sat down next to
me. He folded his hands and then
placed them on his lap. His eyes
were brimming with tears, and he began to sniffle. I’m late,’ he said. Then after several eulogies, he leaned over to me and
said, ‘Why do they keep calling Mary….Margaret?’ ‘Because Margaret was her name. No one ever called
her Mary,’ I
whispered. ‘No, that isn’t
correct,’ he insisted… ‘Her name is Mary Peters.” The two of them went back and for until the late comer
finally asked, “Isn’t this the Lutheran church?” “No, the Lutheran church is across the street.”
“Oh.” “I believe you’re at the wrong funeral Sir.”
Well, the two of them got to
laughing. The woman goes on to
say, “I imagined Mother laughing. At the
final 'Amen,' we darted out the door and into the parking lot…And that very
afternoon began a lifelong journey for me
with this man who even though he attended the wrong
funeral, was still in exactly the right place at the
right time. A year after our meeting, we were married at a country church
where he was the
Assistant Pastor. This time we both arrived at
the same church, and we were right on time. And after all these
years, I realize
that...In my time of sorrow, God gave me laughter and
in place of loneliness, God gave me
love. This past June, we celebrated our twenty-second wedding anniversary.
And
whenever anyone asks us how we met Rick just tells them, ‘Oh, her Mother
and my Aunt Mary introduced us and it has
truly been a match made in Heaven.’”
Yes, life is always better when you follow the one carry on per
person rule and it’s really easier to do than you think. Amen.
Rev. Dr. Richard A. Hughes
July 8, 2012