“WHAT IT’S LIKE NOT TO BE LIKED”
REVELATION 7:9-17
9 After this I
looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every
nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne
and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands,
10 and crying
out
with a loud voice, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to
the Lamb!”
11 And all the
angels were standing around the throne and around the elders and the four
living creatures, and they fell on their faces before the throne and worshiped
God,
12 saying, “Amen!
Blessing and glory and wisdom and thanksgiving and honor and power and might be
to our God forever and ever! Amen.”
13 Then one of
the
elders addressed me, saying, “Who are these, clothed in white robes, and from
where have they come?”
14 I said to him,
“Sir, you know.” And he said to me, “These are the ones coming out of the great
tribulation. They have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of
the Lamb.
15 “Therefore
they are before the throne of God,
and serve him day and night in his temple;
and he who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence.
16 They shall hunger no more, neither thirst anymore;
the sun shall not strike them,
nor any scorching heat.
17 For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd,
and he will guide them to springs of living water,
and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”
It’s hard when someone
doesn’t like you. After all, nobody wants to feel the way a teenager felt when
she came home from school one day.
She walked into the living room and dejectedly threw herself on the
couch. “I’m never going back to
school,” she moaned. “Nobody likes
me. Everyone in the world hates
me.” As soon as he heard that her younger
brother smiled and said, “That’s not true sis. Everyone doesn’t hate you. A lot of people don’t
even know you.”
Yes, it’s hard when someone
doesn’t like you. That someone could
be a neighbor or a coworker or a classmate. Just look at what happened to poor Phoebe Prince. She’s the
high school student who
committed suicide back in January after months and months of relentless
bullying.
Christians in the early
church also knew what it’s like not to be liked. That’s because the Romans
weren’t overly friendly when it came to their new fangled faith. In fact,
that’s why the Book of Revelation was written. The key to understanding the Book of Revelation is right
there in the letter’s opening words.
“I, John, your brother….was on the island called Patmos on account of
the word of God and the testimony of Jesus.” (1:9) That’s just a nice way of
saying John was a prisoner on that island off the coast of Turkey because the
Romans didn’t like his Christian faith and beliefs.
Things haven’t changed much
since then. That’s because we also
live in a society that isn’t overly friendly to our Christian faith and
beliefs. Consider if you
will Exhibit A. These days you’re not supposed to say “Merry Christmas.” You’re supposed to
say “Happy
Holidays.” Consider if you will
Exhibit B. These days you’ll find more cars in the parking lot at Wal-Mart than
you will in the parking lots of the various churches around town. Consider if you will Exhibit C. These days you
parents have to choose
between sending their children to Sunday School or baseball practice on Sunday
mornings.
Then there’s Exhibit D. Exhibit D is a prayer that was written
about 30 years ago. It was
supposedly written by a high school student out in Bagdad, Arizona. Some of you
may be familiar with the poem. It
goes like this:
Now I sit me down
in school
where praying is against the rule.
For this great nation
under God
finds mention of Him very odd.
………………………………………
Our hair can be
purple, orange
or green, that's no offense; it's a freedom scene.
(But) The law is
specific, the
law is precise. Praying out old is a serious vice.
For praying in a
public hall
might offend those with no faith at all.
(So) In silence
alone we must
meditate, God's name is prohibited by the state.
We're allowed to
cuss and dress
like freaks, and pierce our noses, tongues and cheeks.
We can get our (means
of ) birth
controls, study witchcraft, vampires and totem poles.
But the Ten Commandments
are not
allowed, it's scary here I must confess,
When chaos reigns,
the school's
a mess.
So, Lord, this silent
plea I
make: Should I be shot; my soul please take!
These
days, people who profess and practice their faith these days know what it’s
like not to be liked. Of course, it
must be said that we’ve brought some of this unpopularity on ourselves. The child abuse scandal in the Catholic
Church hasn’t helped. We’ve also
made ourselves unpopular by being overly judgmental, at times, when it comes to
people who disagree with us. These
another reason why we’ve become so unpopular. Many years ago, I attended a seminar. I forget who the keynote
speaker was
but I do remember what he said. When
he stood up to speak, he looked out at this auditorium full of ministers and
said, “Congratulations!” As we
looked at each other and wondered why he was congratulating us he then said,
“We need to congratulate ourselves because we have succeeded in doing the
impossible. We’ve succeeded in
making Jesus Christ boring!” He
was right! We’ve succeeded in
making Jesus Christ, the man of Nazareth who is the way, the truth and the
light and God’s only begotten son boring!
You can see that sad reality in the announcement that appeared oneday in
a church’s Sunday morning bulletin.
The announcement read as follows: “Barbara
Williams remains in the hospital and needs blood donors for more
transfusions. She is also having
trouble sleeping and requests tapes of Pastor Bill’s sermons.” Here’s another one for you to ponder.
It’s a riddle. Question: Why do
Protestants have coffee hours after the Sunday morning worship service? Answer: To make sure that people are
fully awake before driving home.
When you come right down to
it there are lots of reasons why people who practice and profess their faith know
what it’s like not to be liked. The
most important question though isn’t why? The most important question is
what. What do you do when you know
what it’s like not to be liked?
The answer is right there in
the Book of Revelation. You put on
your white robe. You stay true to
who you are and who God is calling you to be. At one point in his vision John
sees a multitude of people wearing white robes and he is asked by an elder,
“Who are these, clothes in white robes, and from where have they come?” John has no idea who they are and
replies, “Sir, you know.” The
elder then says, “These are the ones coming out of the great tribulation. They have washed their robes and made
them white in the blood of the Lamb.”
Now the image of washing a
robe in a basin of blood sounds like it should be in a Hollywood horror movie but remember. The Book of Revelation
was written for Christians who were
being persecuted and punished for professing and practicing their faith. So, the people in the white robes were
the people who held fast to their faith even though it meant that they knew
what it was like not to be liked.
John is saying the same
thing to us today. Hold fast to
your faith even though you may end up knowing what it’s like not to be liked. Live your life with integrity or
as
Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, “Let your light shine so that others
will see your good deeds and give glory to God in heaven. (Matthew 5:16)
If there is any hope for this
world it will be found in the people who profess and practice and profess their
faith in the Jesus who is the resurrection and the life, the Jesus who said, “I
have come that you might have life and have it abundantly,” the Jesus who said
“love one another even as I have loved you.” When you love even those who may not like you might just learn
something about the people who are at Wal-Mart on Sunday morning and the people
who say “Happy Holidays” and the coaches who hold baseball practices on Sunday
morning. It’s the same thing that
Henri Nouwen learned while working at a construction sight at a monastery. Henri Nouwen was a Catholic priest who
spent a year living and working
with a monastery full of Trappist monks in upstate New York. He later wrote a book about the
experience. The title of the book
is “The Genesee Diary.” This is
what he wrote in his entry for November 18. “What do you do when you are a monk and everyone around you
is in the playful habit
of (taking the Lord’s name in vain) when something doesn’t go as expected? This is no theoretical question
since
this is the case at the church building site where monks work closely together
with good-natured and good-cursing workers. I wondered how I
would react. Probably I would not
say anything but slowly get angry until I finally exploded and said, ‘Don’t you
know you are not supposed to curse!’ Then we would all be angry, the air would
be tense, and charity hard to find.
Well – (Brother) Anthony told me his
response. After having heard the
name of Jesus used “in vain”…he thought, ‘Should I say something about
it?’ He said to himself, ‘Why
not?’ Then the next time someone
dropped a beam or bent a nail or used the name of the Lord again ‘without
effect’ he put his arm around him and said, ‘Hey, you know – this is a
monastery – and we love that man here.’
The man looked up at him, smiled, and said, ‘To tell you the truth – I
do too.’ And they both had a good
laugh.”
(The
Genesee Diary, p.156)
It’s really simple. There are going to be times when
someone doesn’t like you and you’re going to be tempted not to like them in
return. You’ll have a better chance of turning all that negativity around though
if you put on your white robe and do what Jesus asked you to do at the Last
Supper. “Love one another even as
I have loved you.” (John 13:34) Amen.
Rev. Dr. Richard A. Hughes
April 25, 2010